Love Yourself to Love your life

In today's machine life we are more and more becoming like machines. Every thing we think, we do or even want is so "automated". We are increasingly becoming a Robo Society. I am sure there are people who may not agree with my point of view but I also know there are people who will agree with me too.
Look around ourselves, the Society we are living in, people are getting unhappier every day, the value of live, family and love is diminishing so fast that should worry all of us. Now a days most people are just worry about money, jobs, careers, but not a whole lot about love, companionship or caring. Every one is looking for Quick Fix for every problem. No body wants to get to the root of issues because most of the people are so much frustrated that they don't even want to know the root. They rather ignore it, move on or just get rid of the person instead of the issue. We are becoming increasingly a Lonely Society.
If we want to change that, if we want to get into that Happy family relationship we got to start loving our selves first before we can love any one else. It starts right here, within ourselves.

What is Nature saying to Us??

Nature is talking to us, are we listening?? I don't think most of us are listening. We are too busy in our lives and the routine that we are not listening what Nature around us trying to tell us. There are so many signs and so many ways Nature is trying to tell us how we are not only destroying ourselves we are destroying our future generations. We are destroying are Home, "Earth". It is very clear that if we did not our path we will very soon reach at the point of no return. There are people who I think more care about the politics then caring about the Nature or the planet or even Humanity, they say that we are not destroying nature, its just "Natural" what is going on around us. REALLY!!!!!!! I don't think so, I think these people need to take a closer look at our surrounding to notice what is going on. Don't get my wrong I am not trying to play the Fear factor but if we did not start doing something about it very soon this fear factor will become such a harsh reality that it will be unbearable.
It is the Nature, the climate, the forests, the lakes, the mountains, the oceans that made possible for "LIFE" to exist on this planet. I don't know if there is life on any other planet or not, but I am pretty sure even if there is a life, its not like the Human race. This is our home, we need to protect it and we need to protect it at any cost. "Any Cost" that's true any cost why?? because any cost we pay is much lesser then the cost we will pay if we loose earth. I know and I am a believer that one day this will come to end too, and some may say why to anything about it if its gonna end one day any way. The answer to that question is why do we do anything in that case every thing should take care of itself. That's not how things work. We continuously try to improve things, we continuously work on things and we need to continuously work on trying to save this planet. That is what Nature is trying to tell us. IS any one listening??

Thought of the day

Life is like a continuous training session for every one who is open to learn. Its like a class full of students among those some strives to be the best and on top, some just go along on a day by day basis and then there are some who just simply don't care about any thing. People who wants to be the best, who wants to be the achievers they keep their eyes and ear open to learn from any thing and every thing. Life is full of lessons for those who are willing to learn and also for those who don't care. The difference is people who wants to get some where they are receptive and they take the time to analyze every situation and take time to think about the consequences of their action.
That I think what sets apart from some one who achieves in life verses some one who didn't had much success. That is why I guess some one said We are responsible for our own actions. Now more then ever I think we all need to try to do that because of the world we live in. As much social issues this world face, as much poverty and hunger all around us we are that much more responsible for our actions.

Beauty Of Nature

There is so much beauty all around us. My weakness is the snow cover mountains of Colorado, Green forests, Big blue lakes. The delicate noise of wind blowing in the quiet mountains of Colorado. The Fresh water running through Valleys is just breath taking and makes me forget all the problems of life even if its for just a short time. If we take a moment and look around ourselves there is beauty all around us. Some times in the night when I am about to go to bed, I just lay in bed and stare out the window thinking there is so much to see in this world and how little I have seen. The time we have on this earth is precious. For years I was so busy to realize that, and now I want to see the World. I face the same challenges what most of the other common people do like Money, time off from work etc. I decided to put my thoughts and feeling in the shape of blog because I know there are lots and lots of people like me who wants to love life, who do love life, full of dreams and wishes but have constraints of life and I thought this is a good way of connecting to those people who may feel the same way or think the same way. It will be a good way to give people an opportunity to share their thoughts, feelings and emotions.

One Life One Chance

Every time I go to Grand Canyon, I stand by the Canyon with my wife and look straight and around me the Vast beautiful Canyon with so much beauty, History and a spectacular proof of nature. The Beautiful and mighty Colorado River running at the base of the Canyon is saying a lot of things to us. If we are ready to listen. Some of you may think I name the article "One life Once Chance" and I am writing about Grand Canyon what is the relation and where is it. I will be getting to it shortly.
In order to understand the importance of Life and the need to Cherish it, will only become relevant if we can find a reason for us as an individual to do so. Most of us during different stages of our lives experience happiness, tragedies, sadness, love, hatred and lot many other emotions and challenges. During this journey, yes I said Journey because life is a Journey not a destination which unfortunately a lot of us think it is( and may be that is one reason for being so lost but that is a whole different issue) we get so busy trying to solve our daily routine "Challenges" that we forget to Cherish Life, the ONE and ONLY Life in this world we are gonna get.
My realization came about my life at Grand Canyon. That is one of many places where you can find peace, you can experience happiness and you can really feel your heart. There are lot of places like this for you and every one else. Grand Canyon is not the ONLY place. You can find your place depends where you can experience such feelings based on what you like. It could be Mountains, It can be Ocean, Desert, It can be top of the world or at the bottom of the Ocean. The point is find a place, a spot a corner where you really feel Happy because of your surroundings. That's what Grand Canyon does for me and my wife.
As I mentioned earlier we all go thorough different phase in live. I did too, born in a middle class family, lost father and two brothers when I was very young. I saw my mother struggle to provide me with food, shelter, education and most of all self Respect and Confidence that helped me move forward in my life without feeling pity for myself. There come one part of my life where I got off my track and got so selfish and self centered that I forgot about the feelings about people who Love me like my mother and my beautiful wife ( No I do not mean drugs, crime or alcohol instead it was my anger and believe me that can be worst than any other thing) but thank GOD I was able to learn how to manage that and I am not saying I am there yet and am all perfect but I am happy I am much better.
That is another reason why I am so attach with Grand Canyon because I remember the very first time me and my wife went there we used to argue about any thing and every thing. We didn't need a reason to argue, we could start even if just bird fly by us :) but I remember the joy and happiness me and my wife felt when we went the next year and we were happy, loving, and holding hands. I stood pretty much at the same places but it was like a total different picture. The reason was not only the Grand Canyon with its Beauty and Fresh air it was also because I was able to feel that beauty and I was cherishing that moment with my wife that's what made it romantic, memorable and something I can think of again and again.